I so regret just about every relationship I've ever had. Having an abusive father screws us women up for life, I've given up and will barely even leave the house anymore. Vote Up

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14 people think you're a douche 6 Comments | Add Comment Submitted by Amelia on the 22nd Oct 2009 at 7:49 AM
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#504 Amelia, having an abusive father - in the form of violence in my case - can mess up anyone, male or female. Hang in there and talk to the right people. All is not lost. Submitted by Empathiser on the 22nd Oct 2009 at 8:13 AM Go to regret #804

#505 Stop blaming your abusive father for your bad choices and take some responsibility for your own happiness. Submitted by Dan on the 22nd Oct 2009 at 9:48 AM Go to regret #804

#509 I read this and had to comment. Don't close yourself off, the world will pass you by, keep your head high. Just because you can't find the right guy right now, doesn't mean he not out there looking for you as well. Submitted by Maverick2179 on the 22nd Oct 2009 at 12:02 PM Go to regret #804

#543 Amelia, You need to work through it, but when you do, and when you are ready to close that door to the past, building a new life going forward, a life based on who you are now, not on what your father did to you. You'll find your way! Submitted by similar on the 23rd Oct 2009 at 12:48 AM Go to regret #804

#545 It doesn't have to screw up your life. You made that up. This isn't meant to minimize your experience, just to point out that you're the one who decides the impact of your father's actions on you. Submitted by Caterpillar on the 23rd Oct 2009 at 1:54 AM Go to regret #804

#565 Don't let him win...you deserve more, and it's out there, and you'll find it when you least expect it. Submitted by lacrima on the 23rd Oct 2009 at 9:27 PM Go to regret #804

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